for having so many girl-power-female-pride-miss thang-girlfriends, it's funny to me how... at the end of the day... we are as vulnerable to our male counterparts as the weak-minded-push-over girls we chastise and vow we'll never be.
at the end of the day... we all just want to love and be loved. we let our guard down when it happens to us. we become what we once dreaded.
and that's ok. every so often, we need to let love in. we need to stop being so critical. and put away the thick-headed-never-jolted-bad-ass-female front. i'm not saying, just to settle for a pea-brain cutie for the sake of companionship. but it's time we stop denying ourselves the opportunity for love because we're too judgmental and too preoccupied with the idea of finding someone better. before you know it, 'our prime' will have passed and singledom becomes the only option, not the cool thing.
i say this because i see it happening with a lot of my good girlfriends. miss independent needs to be taken care of (sometimes) too. and i will admit, i am a complete victim to this post.
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